Start with a question: what is rudeness, exactly? I'd say it is a signal of disrespect, either intended or reasonably inferred from shared norms. A thumbs-up fails both tests in most cases. Consider a hypothetical. A friend texts, 'Running ten minutes late, see you at the cafe.' You reply with a thumbs-up. What did the friend need? To know their message arrived and that you're fine with it. The thumbs-up delivers exactly that, instantly, with no extra burden. Now imagine the alternative, a full sentence like 'No worries, see you then!' The information is identical. The only difference is length, and we should be careful about treating length as a proxy for warmth. Critics say the emoji feels cold. But coldness is a feeling that depends on context, not a property of the symbol. A thumbs-up after a heartfelt confession would be a misfire, and I'll grant that. But that is a mismatch between message and response, and the same mismatch would occur if you replied 'k' or 'noted.' The fault lies in ignoring what the message called for, not in the emoji. There is also a cost to the opposite rule. If a thumbs-up is rude, then everyone owes a typed reply to every logistical text, which creates endless 'thanks' and 'you're welcome' loops. A brief acknowledgment is how people end a conversation gracefully. So my position is that a thumbs-up is perfectly fine as a default, and rude only when the situation clearly demanded more, which is a failure of attention rather than of the emoji.
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